Wow, what a wonderful week again! I love serving in Florence!! Everybody is so nice and we have so many good things happening right now it's amazing! Elder Anderton and I always have such good talks while we drive from appointment to appointment and most of the time it's about the testimony we have seen grow from one another over the course of our missions. I can't even begin to fathom the change I have seen in me! Repentance is a real thing! Not only do you repent of bad things, but you can repent, or change, your little habits or even your attitude. My perspective has changed on so many things as well, and this is a story about that. Elder Anderton and I saw some suckkas playing basketball and we walk up in our white T's and asked if we could play them! So they let us play, jokingly at first, and then after the 2 of us were beating them they were like "ohh man you two are just hustlin us!" haha! We were playing 3 on 3 and while we were playing, this chick gets out of her car and starts yelling at the guy on our team! Haha, she was getting so mad, swearing at him and she kept saying over and over, "Give me my Key Tony". Come to find out, this guy had a chat room site or something, and his girlfriend found out and got mad and wanted her key to the house?... But they went on for a good 10 minutes back and forth swearing, getting nothing accomplished, and it was right in front of us! haha it was hilarious! Then he was like alright lets go talk somewhere else... That left me and Elder Anderton there to play 2 on 3. yeah, we beat them to 16, it was pretty awesome! Then we taught them afterwards and they want to come to church! It was pretty awesome!
But the thing I learned most from playing basketball with those guys is how yelling doesn't solve anything. The loud tone of your voice just makes the other person mad, and all you want to do is yell back and be right. Instead, lower your voice and understand the person, then everything will work out. Once they started talking like normal people, they finally understood each other and got the problem figured out. In this life, everybody always needs to be right, no matter what, even if they are wrong. But if we understand each other and where each person comes from, everything will be way better and there wont be a spirit of contention!
I love this work, and I pray that every body will see the vision that our Prophet does as to hastening the work, members and missionaries together!! Have a wonderful week!!
Love, Elder Bloxham